2021.10.23 17:29 alengir Reminded me of Terminator ..
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2021.10.23 17:29 SparklyRen Views…
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2021.10.23 17:29 Bunny_Trans Should Netflix bring back good shows with one season?
2021.10.23 17:29 Telsion Gravenberch scored an absolute banger! New match engine looks good too
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2021.10.23 17:29 Mangoconsal1 Is there a search engine for words in telegram groups? That is, I want to search for specific words and that it gives me results of the groups in which said word appears without me being joined to those groups.
2021.10.23 17:29 lwxnfc How come many people only hang out with people of the same ethnicity?
2021.10.23 17:29 evieofficial Naomi: TV vs Book version
So I watched the entire series first BEFORE reading the books. Now having watched the series I grew to just loath Naomi's character. I couldn't help but feel like a lot of the problems they found themselves in were due directly to her choices and actions. I just feel like she was an overall terrible character based on her actions in the story. So I go on to read the books and my feelings have changed. I feel like the book wrote her in a very distinct way that you can't help but to root for her. And you just feel for her and her situation and everything she's had to go thru. With all the said my opinion stands at: TV Naomi just sucks as a character, Book Naomi is awesome and I just want to give her a hug.
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2021.10.23 17:29 GeoHux OLN (Olin corp) Earnings Beat - Deep Value in growth stage - Stability at $100
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2021.10.23 17:29 Corrects_Maggots PsBattle: Borussia Dortmund player celebrating a goal
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2021.10.23 17:29 alle15minuten Gerade ist es October 23, 2021 at 10:29PM
2021.10.23 17:29 nj_devils30 First time posting. Wanted some opinions on whether my smoker is still okay to use. I noticed a build up of some black stuff inside of my smoker. I scraped it off and re-seasoned it. What do you guys think?
2021.10.23 17:29 LionSonAri Does anyone else who staked on Shibaswap not see their Shiba staked on SS?
2021.10.23 17:29 Nevek_Green What plant is this and how is it able to move like that?
2021.10.23 17:29 SimonBrooks68 Vintage-Styled San Diego Chargers
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2021.10.23 17:29 MemeBeamStream Bassbreaker 15 or AC10 for rock?
2021.10.23 17:29 daniballeste Dis sub dead
2021.10.23 17:29 throwaway-908908 Me (44) is struggling with ADD husband (47)
I need some advice. Me (44) and DH (47) have been married for nearly 20 years and have two amazing teens. Unfortunately, my DH had ADD, for which he is unmedicated and no longer sees a therapist. He was on medication for a while, but it made him super angry and aggressive in the evenings, so he stopped taking it. I'm sympathetic to his ADD and try to give him as much leeway as possible, but lately, I'm worn down by the slanted responsibility breakdown in our relationship.
We both work full time and always have, except for a three-year stint when he went to grad school and was a stay-at-home dad. He never finished his degree and was only six credits shy when he quit, but that's another story. In terms of how things break down, I do all of our finances, handle all of the children's things, getting their license, driving lessons, hiring help when they were little, anything with school, clothes shopping, college, etc. I do all of the bills, plan schedules, etc.; I am responsible for all the grocery shopping, meal planning, and feeding of the family except for the occasional day when he offers to pick up a few things and cook, or I ask him to go to the store. Ultimately though, everyone looks to me for what they are eating for dinner every night. I also plan family vacations, trips to visit our daughter, and generally the mental work of the family (remember addresses, phone numbers, birthdays, to send flowers, gift, etc.)
From my perspective, his might be different; he is responsible for cleaning the kitchen, taking out the trash, keeping the cars up on maintenance, and occasionally scheduling Dr's appointments for the dog and children. He also does the laundry, but it never gets folded. These are the only things that are expected of him, and he does them completely inconsistently, except for cleaning the kitchen, but that could take a full 24 hours from when dinner was cooked to get done. The lawn is also his responsibility. 2 years ago, he caught the lawnmower on fire and hasn't gotten it repaired. Last year, I hired someone to cut the lawn and asked him to do the same this year; he tried but didn't find anyone and stopped trying. It was not cut at all summer, and our lawn looks like a cow pasture. I'm shocked the township hasn't fined us, but I drew the line at that this year. We both straighten up the house, but usually, that's when I say to the whole family, ok, we're going to clean today.
I often have to remind him of the things he's responsible for, which he gets pissed, and causes tension. After 20 years of asking, I admit they aren't the nicest reminders because it's literally the 1000th time I've had to ask him to do the thing. He's not proactive and doesn't notice when things need to get done. I know this is part of his ADD, but I'm tired of it.
Also, life is not consistent, so there are OTHER things that come up that fall squarely with me if I want them to get done or if he agrees to do it, we have to wait years. Also, he rarely notices when something needs to be done, which really might be my biggest issue. For instance, our gutters currently have full-blown plants growing out of them. He has no idea and won't notice unless I tell him. We've had a leak in our roof for many, many years now, and he has said he'd take care of it; he has not. We have a bathroom shower that doesn't work and needs to be redone. We have the funds for this, and I had a contractor out, but it never went anywhere, and he hasn't moved on that going on four years now. Our heater chimney needs to be swept, and he's said a million times that he'd call them, but he has not; again, it's been years of asking.
I know most of you are probably saying, "just do it yourself." I could, but I have a ton of other stuff that I already have to do, and what is the point of having a partner in life if they aren't a partner. Frankly, if I have to do it all on my own, then I might as well be on my own. Also, when I do take something from him and do it, he gets mopey because "he was going to do that."
I love him and want to be with him. I want both of us to be happy and right now neither of us is. I've suggested we see a therapist, but again, planning is just one more thing on MY plate. I've suggested that he see an executive function coach, I reached out to one and connected her with him, but he never followed through. It is not lost on me that this is part of his ADD and EF issues. At this point, though, our dynamic is more mother-son, with me always having to ask/tell him what to do, so I feel no intimacy towards him. It might be different if he took me out or stepped up and proactively did things, but he hasn't planned a date night with me in several years. I've planned our anniversary dinners, vacations, etc. He asked me what I wanted for Mother's day, and I said that I'd love someone to clean our windows (we have a LOT), and he's still telling me that he'll get someone to do that. I do love him and want to be with him, and I know I have a responsibility in this too. He tries and is a nice guy. He's kind and caring, loves our kids, but I'm struggling with this and would love some advice on what I/we can do to improve this situation.
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2021.10.23 17:29 Noodletrousers Did I buy what I was hoping for?
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2021.10.23 17:29 puzzlehead989999 People who were friends with an incel what was their actual problem?
2021.10.23 17:29 NasWolf_Yt LESS GO
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2021.10.23 17:29 magumba_state Any way to disable external backup charm?
2021 Elantra hybrid. I wouldn't be as concerned if I didn't live in a quiet apartment complex. You can hear the darn thing from a block away when it's quiet in the morning or night.
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2021.10.23 17:29 ShinigamiCheo I've had about 10 of these alerts just this shift.. I'm going to lose my shit!!!
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2021.10.23 17:29 Izuxx_kei It’s 3am and I just made this. Apologies if it has already been done.
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2021.10.23 17:29 octobladerunner Self shot portraits are my kinda thing
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2021.10.23 17:29 WeUsedToPlayHouse How did you get your username?